Parshas Beshalach (Shira) 5786
- Torah Tavlin
- Jan 28
- 3 min read
זה הדבר אשר צוה ה' לקטו ממנו איש לפי אכלו עמר לגלגלת מספר נפשתיכם איש לאשר באהלו תקחו ... (טז-טז)
The Torah describes the miraculous nature of the Mann in the wilderness of the Midbar. Regardless of whether a person gathered an abundance or a small amount of Mann, they returned to their tent to find exactly one omer per person. The Mann has always served as a timeless blueprint for bitachon, a reminder that sustenance comes from Above, not from human manipulation, exertion, or management. It teaches us a lesson that echoes across generations: dishonesty can never increase what is meant for you, and integrity can never diminish what Hashem has already decreed. While this principle is often spoken about in abstract terms, every so often a real-life moment crystallizes it with striking clarity. Such a moment unfolded recently in Jerusalem, involving an ordinary yungerman who found himself in an unexpectedly profound test of honesty.
A few weeks ago, this yungerman was driving through the city when he was involved in a minor car accident. Baruch Hashem, no one was hurt, and the damage appeared manageable. The other driver, who had clearly been at fault, approached him apologetically and asked if they could handle the matter privately. He preferred to avoid involving insurance and offered to pay for the repairs out of pocket. The yungerman, wanting to keep things simple and avoid unnecessary complications, agreed. He took his car to a local mechanic, who went over the entire automobile and assessed the damage at 6,000 shekels, a fair and straightforward estimate.
But the situation soon shifted. The other driver reconsidered and decided he would rather file an insurance claim after all. Once the insurance company became involved, they sent their own professional appraiser to evaluate the damage. As is common in such cases, the official appraisal came back significantly higher - 11,000 shekels. The yungerman was surprised but assumed this was simply how the system worked. If the insurance company wanted to pay more, that was their prerogative. He accepted the updated assessment and thought the matter was essentially resolved.
Then came the unexpected twist. One day, he received a phone call informing him that the insurance company had discovered that the other driver’s license had been confiscated at the time of the accident. He had been driving illegally - hence his preference to avoid involving insurance - and as a result, they were refusing to cover the claim entirely. The case was being transferred to legal representatives, who would pursue the driver personally for the full 11,000 shekels. Suddenly, the yungerman found himself in a very different position. According to Halacha, now that the insurance company was no longer involved, he could not claim the inflated appraisal. He was entitled only to the actual cost of the repairs, the original 6,000 shekels. Anything beyond that would be taking money that did not rightfully belong to him.
The driver, clearly distressed, called the yungerman and offered to pay the 6,000 shekels out of pocket. When the yungerman assured him that he had no intention of demanding the higher amount, the driver was overwhelmed with relief and gratitude. He thanked him repeatedly for his integrity, expressing how much it meant that the yungerman refused to exploit the situation or use the legal system to pressure him for money he did not owe.
What happened next felt like a whisper from Heaven. The very next day, the yungerman received a call from the gabbai of Ezras Achim, a local charity organization. The gabbai sounded excited. “I have some amazing news for you,” he said. “You just won our grand prize drawing ... 5,000 shekels!” The yungerman was stunned. The amount was not approximate. It was not symbolic. It was the exact difference between the inflated appraisal and the true cost of the repairs - the precise sum he had declined to take dishonestly.
In that moment, the message felt unmistakable. When he refused to accept even a single shekel that was not rightfully his, Hashem returned that very amount to him in a way that was pure, peaceful, and undeniably destined. It was a living illustration of the lesson of the Mann: what is yours will come to you, and what is not yours will never bring blessing.